Welcome to the Get Your GOAL podcast with Pahla B
With over 250 inspiring and educational episodes, more than 2 million downloads, and a 4.8-star average rating, the Get Your GOAL podcast is where thousands of ambitious women over 50 have discovered the clarity, confidence, and consistency they need to finally get their goal.
Pahla’s Top Picks
I started recording the Get Your GOAL podcast over six years ago, back when I was focused on fitness and weight loss coaching. And while most of the episodes reflect that season of my business, what you’ll hear underneath it all is the same message I share today:
You are capable of creating what you want, and journaling, mindset work, and self-trust are the tools that will get you there.
These hand-picked episodes reflect the evolution of that message, with powerful conversations about goal setting, emotional resilience, and creating lasting success on your own terms.
Recent Episodes
Browse the most recent episodes for practical tools, powerful stories, and fresh perspectives to help you trust yourself, stay consistent, and create results – your way.

Meet the Host
Hey friend, I’m Pahla B – goal coach, journaling expert, and fellow ambitious woman with big goals and a busy brain.
If you’ve ever felt like you should have it all figured out by now, but you’re still second-guessing every next step – you’re not alone, and you’re in the right place.
This podcast is where clarity begins.
I’m so glad you’re here – let’s get your goal. 💕
All Episodes
Take your time here, friend. This is a space to explore — a full library of 250+ episodes that reflect years of mindset shifts, journaling insights, and real-life experiences on the path to getting your goal.
You don’t need to listen in order. You don’t even need to know exactly what you’re looking for – just follow your curiosity. No matter which title you click on, there’s something here for you.
How To Make it Through the Holidays Without Gaining Weight
Rather than white-knuckling your way through the holidays this year, let’s explore some of the unhelpful thoughts you probably have, that have created weight gain in years past, and start shifting into helpful thoughts that will change everything. Because this is the...
It Sucks To Be Stuck (How To Get Unstuck and Start Losing Weight Again)
It literally does not matter what goal you’re aiming for, or how many other goals you’ve achieved in your life, the path to your current goal is and will always be littered with stuckness. It’s part of the journey. It’s expected. It’s inevitable. And as an ambitious,...
The Four Most Effective Journaling Prompts for Faster Weight Loss
No matter what you’re doing in life, you will be better served by working WITH biology instead of against it. And here’s the thing to know about biology: we humans are always always always seeking pleasure and avoiding pain. So these journaling prompts are effective...
Five Surprising Things I Gave Up When I Lost Weight in My 50s
Isn’t it funny how we always think that giving something up is a bad thing? Like, when you saw the title of this podcast, you probably thought something like, “Oh, Pahla’s gonna tell me that she had to give up her favorite food, or that she gave up drinking wine.” Or...
How To Finally Lose the LAST Five Pounds
No matter how close or far away you are from your goal weight, I know this topic is of deep interest to you. Everybody wants to be done losing weight, right? Right. And it’s my job as your personal weight loss life coach to dispel the internet myths and dispense the...
What It’s Like To Love Your Body
The truth is, your body is a walking, talking, thinking, blinking miracle. But maybe right now you don’t see it that way. So with this episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast, I’m taking you behind the scenes on my own self-love journey, including the ups and downs of...
Tough Love Weight Loss Advice You Need To Hear
My friend, I know that you can change. I know that you can hear what I’m about to tell you with an open heart. I know you can handle it, and use it to create what you want. I know you can lose weight. I know you can break out of your self-imposed limitations. I know...
3 Things I Stopped Doing When I Lost Weight For the Last Time
Let’s paint a picture of what life looks like when you’re not just done losing weight, but really, truly, and absolutely finished. These three things I’m sharing with you today didn’t just magically disappear from my life the day I hit my goal weight. In fact, they...
How To Control Your Eating Without Using Willpower
I am a woman who has engaged in all kinds of eating behaviors over the course of my lifetime. From way overeating, to way undereating, to comfort or boredom or stress eating. I’ve done the extreme restriction thing, and I’ve also done the “F it, I’m eating a bag of...
This Is Why You Can’t Get Consistent
I know everybody and their weight loss coach tells you how you’ve gotta be consistent to reach your goals, and we all sort of acknowledge, like “Yeah, consistency is hard,” but nobody talks about why it’s so hard or what to do about it, other than using willpower or...
How Journaling Helps You Lose Weight
It’s no secret that I am a huge fan of journaling. In fact, I consider myself a journaling coach, a journaling mentor, and even a journaling teacher. I think a lot of us know that journaling is good for us, in that vague way that we know brushing our teeth is good for...
How To Get Faster Weight Loss Results
As I promised you last week, I’ve got another deep-dive Masterclass that I pulled up from the Pahla B archives. This one was called “Speed Up Your Results By Doing These Two Things,” and I know you’re going to find some real gems in here. I originally recorded this...
Can You REALLY Eat What You Want and Still Lose Weight?
When I was preparing for this week’s episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast, I went back into the Pahla B archives to watch a Masterclass I had put on about eight or nine months ago. I knew I had made a couple of points in that class that I wanted to share with you on...
Four “Diet Thoughts” You Can Let Go Of Today
Letting go of your unhelpful thinking is a piece of the weight loss mindset puzzle that often gets overlooked. And I get it. I mean, it’s so much more pleasant to write affirmations to yourself on your mirror or to make gratitude lists or count your blessings or...
Should You Change Your Calories?
You’ve been trying to lose weight for a while. Months. Maybe even years. And in spite of your best efforts, the scale is either staying the same or bouncing around within a couple of pounds. Every time you weigh yourself, you’re feeling frustrated and doubtful. At the...
3 Tips For Consistent Weight Loss
It’s true that weight loss never moves in a direct, straight line down, but you can achieve a continuous, consistent downward trend over time. The key? Understanding the body-based inputs you have complete control over (calories, water, sleep schedule, and exercise),...
Which One of These 3 Things is Keeping You Stuck?
I truly believe that the reason we human beings set goals for ourselves is to learn something deeper about our human experience. And the way we learn whatever it is we need to learn is by being challenged. Struggling. Getting stuck. And it’s my mission in life to help...
Why (and How!) I Stopped Dieting
Feeling like you’re on a diet is optional, and the truth of it is that you’re far more likely to be successful at losing weight and maintaining it for life when what you feel is amazing. So, today I’m sharing four ways I used to feel like I was on a diet and exactly...
Top 5 Weight Loss Mindset Blocks
When you have blind spots (aka, mindset blocks), you are constantly slowing yourself down. But knowledge is power, my friend, and self knowledge – self awareness – is the greatest power of all. When you intentionally see yourself clearly, honestly, and without...
The 12 Biggest Weight Loss MYTHS, Debunked
I have so much sympathy for how hard it can be to navigate through the endless amounts of junk information on the internet, so let’s start with a couple of basic facts about weight loss that can help you quickly spot other myths that I don’t mention here today on the...
What To Do When You’re Not Losing Weight
Weight loss is a long game, and it’s driven by three things, in this exact order: number one, believing that you can, number two, eating in a slight caloric deficit over time, and number three, lovingly supporting your menopausal metabolism while you do numbers one...
4 Reasons You’re Not Losing Weight… Yet
Before we get into it, make sure you really take the time to hear the last word in the title of this episode: yet. While it may or may not be true that you’re not losing weight right now (and we’ll talk about how that might not even be true in reason number four!),...
How To Lose Weight Without Feeling Like You’re On a Diet
The fact is, you can DO all the things to lose weight – which is to say, creating belief in yourself and eating in a slight caloric deficit over time, while supporting your menopausal metabolism with adequate hydration, sleep, and exercise – without FEELING like...
The 3 Biggest Mindset Shifts I Made To Lose Weight In My 50s
Mindset is basically just another word for belief or beliefs. Which is basically just another way of saying a thought or collection of thoughts that you’ve been practicing subconsciously and maybe haven’t challenged. We all have beliefs we’ve never looked at! And...
5 Things You’re NOT Doing That Are Slowing Down Your Weight Loss Results
I get asked a lot about what to DO for weight loss – which makes sense, because I’m a weight loss coach! And of course I have a super simple framework called The 5-0 Method that tells you exactly what to do each day to lose all the weight you want and keep it off...
3 Signs You’re Ready to Lose Weight for Good
If you’ve been wondering about whether or not you’re ready to lose weight, wonder no more, my friend. Here’s are three simple signs that prove it’s time to lose weight for the last time: You notice yourself complaining about your weight You can spot a diet that’s not...
Why Weight Loss is Important
See if this sounds familiar: You’ve been wanting to lose weight for a while now, but there’s a part of you that feels really foolish about going on another diet in your 50s. I mean, how vain is that? It’s not like you’re going to go running around in a bikini at this...
Losing Weight for the Last Time
You’ve gained and lost weight before, maybe even dozens of times, and you’re sick of it. You’re ready to be done with this dieting nonsense forever. But how does that even work? How do you lose weight for the last time? Like THIS. On this week’s episode, I’m going to...
How to Stop Eating Your Feelings
This week’s episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast is super practical, with step-by-step instructions that’ll help you Make peace with your feelings Understand why they’re doing what they do, and Stop stress-, comfort-, or overeating permanently We’re covering a lot of...
The “F” Word
You’re kind of afraid of writing certain things in your journal, aren’t you? Like it’s too personal, or too embarrassing, or too vulgar to put into writing. Maybe you’re afraid of writing in your journal at all. If you had a sibling read your diary when you were...
How to Stay On Track for Weight Loss (Even When You’re Out of Your Routine!)
First and foremost, I offer you this: you’re always on track for weight loss. Every part of your journey – even the twists and turns and long stretches of not feeling like you’re losing weight – is getting you to your goal. And. I also have some really practical...
What To Do When the Scale Goes UP
Before we talk about mindset, though, let’s clear up a little biology: today’s weight didn’t go up because of what you ate yesterday. Your body has billions of daily processes that affect the scale, and what you’ve recently eaten is only the tiniest fraction of that....
Fast Weight Loss vs. Permanent Weight Loss
First a disclaimer: when I’m saying fast weight loss, I’m not writing a snake oil check that biology can’t cash. Your body has limits to what it can and will do. For a woman over 50, “fast weight loss” means losing something in the neighborhood of 1-5 pounds a month,...
Getting Your Brain Onboard with Weight Loss
Getting your brain onboard with weight loss and believing that you can lose weight is, hands down, the most important part of your weight loss journey. Your body doesn’t go anywhere your brain doesn’t go first. But the solution isn’t just chanting affirmations or...
This is Why Your Other Weight Loss Programs Didn’t Work
Weight loss feels like such a “body thing,” and you’ve heard your whole life that it’s all about calories in and calories out, so if you want to lose one pound, you’ve gotta burn 3500 calories. But how come it’s never that easy in real life? Because sustainable,...
Are You REALLY Ready to Lose Weight?
Wanting, wishing, and hoping you can lose weight this year is very different from actually being READY to lose weight. In this week’s episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast, we’re chatting about the “red flags” that indicate you’re not ready, as well as the signs that...
TRAILER: Lose Weight for the Last Time with the Get Your GOAL Podcast
Losing weight is actually pretty simple, and it always comes down to two things. Number one, believing that you can, and number two, eating in a slight caloric deficit over time. My zone of genius is helping you with the belief piece. In my 20s, 30s, and 40s, I gained...
BONUS: Updates
Join me in this bonus episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast to hear about my new cats (yes, plural), how it’s going with this year’s business pivot, why I’m taking a brief hiatus, and some minor but fun changes coming soon to the podcast.
Weight Loss Q&A with Pahla B
On this episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast (which is a replay of a recent *live* Q&A session), we’re debunking calorie counting myths and addressing menopausal challenges with practical, doable advice for your weight loss journey. Along the way, I answered...
Your Questions About Calories
Should you eat your calories throughout the day, or is it okay to eat them in one setting? And what if you’re still hundreds of calories away from your target, but it’s the end of the day? You don’t want to throw your body into starvation mode, but you don’t want to...
Stop “shoulding” on yourself
It's happened to all of us at some point. You start off all gung-ho about drinking the recommended amount of water every day, only to fall off the wagon and berate yourself for not doing what you "should" be doing. Sound familiar? But here's the thing I've learned:...
Sleeping for Weight Loss
In today's episode, I've got something really special planned for us. I've been going through the archives and found some old Q&A episodes that I just had to bring back. Answering your questions is my absolute favorite part of my job, so get ready for a fun and...
Should You CUT CARBS to Lose Weight?
*Can* you cut carbs to lose weight over 50? Sure (sort of). But *should* you? Well, that’s a whole ‘nuther question with a (probably) different answer! We’re diving deep into the mindset of eating for weight loss in this episode, and exploring the topic of low carb...
6 Things I’ve Learned About Weight Loss
I’ve been a fitness professional for almost a dozen years now, so you might think I already had it all figured out when I started this podcast on October 3, 2017. Nope. Back then, I was just a young 47-year old who had barely entered perimenopause and was still...
100% Consistency
In The 5-0 Method, I explain the five daily tasks that create weight loss: Managing your mind Eating the right number of calories Drinking the right amount of water Getting adequate sleep Exercising moderately And my standard for each of these five tasks is that you...
Are You Doing Too Much?
Overexercise isn’t always the problem, but it’s a far more common issue than the internet would lead you to believe. And it’s particularly problematic for menopausal women, because we recover so differently than we used to. We live in a society that values hard work,...
How to Count the Calories in Your Homemade Meals
Imagine never being afraid of going out to eat, or going to a friend’s house, or going on vacation, ever again. Picture yourself confidently portioning out every meal, every time, to fit your calorie target without second-guessing yourself. This can be you because...
Four Weight Loss Habits That Make Maintenance EASY
When it comes to weight loss habits, most of us focus on things like eating in a caloric deficit, or exercising regularly. But there are other habits you can create now that will pay off big maintenance dividends later. Four Weight Loss Habits That Make Maintenance...
Three Tips to Start Losing Weight Today
You’re ready to lose weight, so the first thing you do is a total pantry clean-out of all the junk food in the house. Then you set your alarm for an hour earlier than usual so you can get in a good, hard workout. You’re focused, you’re determined… and in two weeks,...
How To Choose Your GOAL Weight
You know you want to lose weight, and you’ve got some numbers rattling around in your mind about where the scale might end up, but you’ve also got some doubts. So you’re searching the internet and asking the experts, hoping that’ll clear things up for you. Instead, it...
Losing the First Five Pounds
When you first get started and you’re working on losing your first five pounds, you probably think the secret lies in somehow making yourself eat and drink and journal and sleep and exercise. But the actual secret sauce of weight loss is building belief. So, how do...
Celebrating Your Weight Loss Wins
The science is clear: celebrating your wins helps you win even more. So why is it so hard for you to toot your own horn? And what can you do to make celebrating your wins easier? We’re diving into the topic of celebration today! What You’ll Learn: Why celebrating...
Answering Your Weight Loss Questions
Losing weight during and after menopause is different, and if you’re like the thousands of women I’ve helped to lose weight, you have questions about what’s changed and what works now. So, let’s dive in! Lucy: What’s the timeline for seeing results? My body is in...
Why You Get Off Track (and What To Do About It)
Let's talk about something so many of us experience on our weight loss journeys—getting off track. Whether you're just starting out or you've been at it for a while, it happens to the best of us. But here's the good news: it's completely solvable! The root of getting...
Your Mindset Isn’t Bad
The first time (or the first couple of times) you sit down to journal, you really don’t expect to hear anything too bad. But then you start writing and all of a sudden, it seems like everything in your head is negative! Finding negativity and unhelpful thoughts while...
Why You Overindulge (and What To Do Instead)
My friend, food is not just fuel – we’ve all been socialized to associate it with feelings of love, comfort, and pleasure. Overindulgence occurs in social situations or special occasions, and is driven by a desire to feel loved and connected. But here's the thing: no...
Are You Too Old to Lose Weight?
You, my friend, are NOT too old to lose weight. Regardless of your age, your gender, or your life circumstances, weight loss is driven by two essential factors: believing that you can, and eating in a slight caloric deficit. For the belief piece, I like to rely on...
The Three Stages of Weight Loss
When you set out to achieve a weight loss goal, it can feel like you’re traveling alone and you might even wonder if you’re the only one who feels confused or overwhelmed or stuck. But you’re definitely not alone. Over the years of working with thousands of women...
Nights and Weekends
On this week’s episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast we're tackling a common struggle – staying consistent with your calories on nights and weekends. The answer? Lose the weight in a way that’s ultimately sustainable for maintenance. This means no more restriction, no...
Why Bother?
You’ve faced moments of doubt and frustration on your weight loss journey. But you have the power to overcome them using the Two-Step Tool, and the simple process I’m outlining for you here: Restate the question in a negative declarative form. Listen to the reasons...
MVP — Making Mistakes
It can feel pretty overwhelming, for those of you who are new to the podcast, to try and sort through two hundred and ninety-one older episodes. So, occasionally, I’ll be sharing some of the most valuable older episodes, with an introduction like this one, which sets...
Learning to Lose Weight
On the one hand, if you’re telling yourself that you already know how to lose weight, it sounds like a good thing, right? Like, you know about how menopause has changed weight loss, and you understand the science of how eating in a slight caloric deficit over time is...
Easy Weight Loss
On the one hand, you definitely want weight loss to feel easy. Easy is pleasurable, it’s what your brain craves, and it requires virtually nothing from you. So nice, right? On the other hand, though, you’ve been socialized to value hard work, and truly believe that...
When to Adjust Your Calories
My rule of thumb is that there are two times during weight loss when you might want or need to adjust your calories – at the beginning of your journey when you’re learning to be consistent, and after you’ve lost about 40 pounds (or your weight loss has stopped for...
Journal Prompts
Each day with The 5-0 Method, we do five tasks that make you say, “Oh! I had no idea weight loss at my age could be so simple.” And the number one task is to manage your mindset, by finding your thoughts and deciding if they’re helpful. So many women are on board with...
Top Five Weight Loss Questions
I’ve been studying weight loss for over ten years and really paying attention to the questions you have – especially when you first get started on your journey. It feels difficult to navigate all your choices, and unbelievable that others have had success with such a...
Weighing Yourself
You’re on board with the idea of how mindset work or journaling *might* be helpful for losing weight. But weighing yourself? It’s hard, it feels terrible, and if you could just throw away your scale, you definitely would. I hear from clients all the time that they...
Loving My Menopausal Body
Loving your menopausal body is a feeling that’s available to you – even if right now you think you hate your body, or it’s betrayed you, or you just don’t understand it anymore. You CAN love your body, and I highly encourage you to do so. When menopause came knocking...
Belief
On a scale of one to ten, how much do you currently believe that you can get to your goal weight? Zero? This could be what’s stopping you from getting your goal. In this week’s short, sweet and inspirational episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast, we’re diving into the...
What to Eat for Weight Loss
Losing weight with The 5-0 Method means you’re focused on eating the right number of calories every day – because staying in a slight caloric deficit over time is the only scientifically proven way to shed pounds. But WHAT should you eat? Do you need to go low carb,...
How to Get Any GOAL (Not Just Weight Loss!)
Most of us think getting to our goal will be just a straight line to success, and when things get tough, we just give up. But that doesn’t have to be your story. When you know what to expect along the way, even the bumpy path to your goal is navigable. And the truth...
When Weight Loss is SLOW
Slow weight loss is frustrating, isn’t it? Even when you’re faithfully putting in the work with The 5-0 Method, you might still be losing weight slower than you want to, and you’re just so… over it. But what if slow weight loss isn’t the problem that you think it is?...
Are You Losing Fitness?
You used to be able to go hiking or running for hours on end, lift super heavy weights, and still have the stamina to live your life. But now that you’re exercising moderately – I mean, twenty-three minutes a day, are you kidding me? – to lose weight, you MUST be...
What To Do When You Overeat
You know the scene: you’re getting together with family or friends and before you go, you have every intention of eating to your weight loss calorie target. But then you get there, and… somehow you find yourself eating way over (or under!) your plan. What happened? My...
BONUS: The Wheel
This episode of the Get Your GOAL podcast is short and to the point, so you can take in the concept quickly and apply it everywhere you go. The Wheel is how your brain is ALWAYS working, whether you’re aware of it or not: You have a THOUGHT That THOUGHT creates a...
Trusting the Process
When you first start a weight loss program like The 5-0 Method – which is so counterintuitive to the whole “eat less and move more” philosophy you’ve heard your entire life – it can be really hard to believe you’ll get results, right? But literally thousands of women...
“Happy, Not Perfect” Book Club
In our final installment of the Pahla B Wellness Over 50 book club, we chatted about social media influencer Poppy Jamie’s self help book, “Happy, Not Perfect” – a quick, casual read that offered listeners the tools to become more flexible thinkers. Listen in on the...
Why I’m Not Making Workout Videos Anymore
If you know me from YouTube, you’ve likely noticed that I’m not posting exercise videos like I used to, and maybe you’ve questioned why I’m not making workouts anymore. Here’s why: they’re not helping you lose weight. WHAT? Since when? Literally, since always – and...
How to Have More Self Discipline
People with self discipline don’t seem to have any trouble losing weight, do they? They get up early to workout, they never have trouble with snacking, they drink their water, and get plenty of sleep every night. You know that if you had that kind of self discipline,...
What to Do When Nothing’s Working
You’re doing all the right things to lose weight – journaling, eating your calories, exercising, drinking water, and getting to bed on time. But somehow, the scale just keeps staying the same! Or maybe you’ve been on this journey for a while, and (you know…technically...
Gaining it All Back
Losing weight to only gain it right back has got to be one of the hardest parts of a weight loss journey, am I right? It can make you fearful of taking a vacation (what if I gain the 10 pounds back again?), or red with anger when the scale is fluctuating (why can’t...
Getting Un-Stuck
You’re doing all the right things to lose weight – managing your mind, eating your calories, drinking your water, getting your sleep, and exercising daily – but the scale keeps bouncing around the same number. It’s been weeks, maybe even months, since you’ve really...
Calorie Confusion
You’re ready to lose weight this year once and for all - yay! But are agonizing over what your daily calorie target should be? You’re not alone! Every website, app, and fitness trainer on the planet wants to offer you a different number, and they all claim to work....
How to Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions
So, you’ve made your New Year’s Resolutions, but now you’re wondering how to KEEP them all year long – and, my friend, I’ve got you covered. (Oh, and if you haven’t actually made those resolutions yet? I have so. many. episodes. to help you out! The “Get Your GOAL”...
New Year, New YOU
Are you feeling the “New Year, New YOU” vibe, now that it’s 2023? Me, too! But how will you do it? This week on the Get Your GOAL with Pahla B podcast, we’re digging into what it’s going to take to lose weight this year, why you might be struggling with doing all the...
Creating MAGIC
Do you believe in MAGIC? I definitely don’t. Except, of course, when I do. Which is to say that I believe we are all born with MAGIC inside of us, and have the ability to create any kind of MAGIC we want in the world. What You'll Learn: 👉 Where MAGIC comes from 👉 ...
Pahla B’s Book Club Reads “The Wisdom of Your Body”
This week on the Fitness Matters podcast, I’ve got a special replay of this month’s Wellness Over 50 Book Club (in partnership with Chirp Audiobooks). Enjoy a fun and feisty conversation about Hillary McBride’s self-help tome, “The Wisdom of Your Body.”
How to Keep Going
And no, we’re not talking about how to increase your willpower or force yourself to do tasks you don’t want to do. Instead, here on the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re always finding ways to manage our MINDSET around tough topics! What You'll Learn: 👉 WHY we “let...
Permission to Change
Today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast is short, sweet, to-the-point, and possibly exactly what you need to hear if you’ve been struggling to make the changes you desire in your life. What You'll Learn 👉 Why you’re SUPPOSED TO change 👉 Why change FEELS hard...
Overeating
It happens to us all: you’ve had a great day and stayed on track with your calories, but then you sit down on the couch to relax for the evening and suddenly you can’t stop thinking about those chips in the pantry. You want to get to your weight loss goal, but also?...
Can You REALLY Lose Weight During the Holidays?
It feels inevitable to gain weight during the holidays, doesn’t it? But let me assure you that you don’t have to! And on today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, I’m diving in to clear up some myths about gaining weight and deliver practical, actionable advice...
What to do if you HATE counting calories
So you’re working on weight loss, but you hate counting calories. Obviously, you’re just doomed to never lose weight, right? NOT RIGHT. In fact, today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast takes a deep dive into what’s really going on when you don’t want to count...
Drinking Enough Water
So, you’ve downloaded The 5-0 Method because you want to lose weight, but the water requirement seems like a LOT more than you’re currently drinking. Can you count coffee, tea, or soda in that daily target? My friend, this is the question I get asked more than any...
How Long It Takes to Lose 30 Pounds
Have you been struggling to lose weight, and wanna know how long this is going to take? I’ve got the timeline for you, and some helpful advice to get you where you want to go! What You'll Learn 👉 How FAST (or slow) you can expect to lose weight over 50 👉 Why you...
Pahla B’s Book Club Reads “The Mindful Path to Self Compassion”
Have you been thinking about adding meditation to your mindset journey? Or maybe the exact opposite – that meditation isn’t for you? Either way, you’re sure to be intrigued by the conversation in today’s Fitness Matters podcast! This replay of the Pahla B Wellness...
The Best Calorie Counting App
Are you looking for some advice about the best calorie counting app? Then this podcast is for you! Today on the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re chatting about all the decisions you’ll be making on your weight loss journey, and how to know for yourself which ones are...
How to Lose Weight
It’s hard to navigate through all the hype on the internet about how to lose weight, right? That’s why I’m cutting straight to the bottom line – SCIENTIFIC FACTS – in today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast. What You'll Learn: 👉 The SCIENCE of weight loss 👉 ...
Wanting MORE
You’re serving up a meal (or a snack) and think to yourself, “I want more.” Or you’re enjoying a workout and think, “I wish there were more like this.” Or you’re not getting the results you wanted from a program, and you’re disappointed because you thought there’d be...
NSVs (Non-Scale Victories)
Have you been celebrating your Non-Scale Victories, but still not feeling satisfied with your progress? Then this message is for you! On today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re chatting–okay, honestly, I’m sort of ranting–about why NSVs aren’t doing you...
How to Change Your Mindset
You know you’d like to change your mindset, but maybe the “HOW” of it still feels a little fuzzy. Well, never fear, my friend, because in today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re digging in with three QUICK + ACTIONABLE steps you can take today to manage...
Guaranteed Weight Loss
Wouldn’t you *love* to have a guarantee that you can (and will) lose weight, and get to your goal? Like, wouldn’t it be amazing if there was a program, or a workout, or a way of eating, or SOMETHING that you knew for sure would get you there? Well, here it is: it’s...
How to JOURNAL for Weight Loss
If there’s one part of the 5-0 Method that I get asked about the most, it’s the “mindset stuff,” and I get it! Starting a journaling practice can feel overwhelming. Where do you begin? What do you write? And – the big question – WHEN WILL I FEEL BETTER?? On today’s...
Weight Loss Mindset Tips
Wanna know my BEST weight loss mindset tips, and learn the secret to faster success? Then you’re in for a treat today! On this episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, I’m sharing the top six mindset pitfalls that might be holding you back from reaching your goals....
Pahla B’s Book Club Reads “The Untethered Soul”
I’m here in your inbox today with a replay of this month’s Pahla B Book Club! This time around, we read/listened to “The Untethered Soul,” by Michael A. Singer, and enjoyed a fabulous conversation about the concepts presented in the book, along with how we have...
Monthly Progress Check In
First, let me assure you that you are definitely making progress. That’s a given. But sometimes it’s hard to see, because of all the thoughts rattling around in your brain that are telling you otherwise! This is why the 5-0 Method – my FREE weight loss program,...
Self Sabotage
Do you get started on your goals with gusto and then fizzle out along the way, suddenly finding yourself off-track or out of motivation? You know what you should be doing to make it to the finish line, but instead you’re doing the opposite. What’s this all about? Is...
Your Self Worth
Have you ever struggled with your self worth? Or wondered why you don’t feel better when you lose the weight or make more money? Then this one’s for you! (Actually, they’re all for you – even if you don’t worry about your self worth!) What You'll Learn 👉 The...
You Can Lose Weight
Sometimes it just seems impossible to get to your goal weight, doesn’t it? Like everything (including menopause, your coworkers, society and your body!) is conspiring against you. But I’m here today with some fantastic news: YOU CAN LOSE WEIGHT. And I’ll show you how!...
How to Stop Snacking
Have you been trying to figure out how to STOP SNACKING? Then this is the podcast episode you’ve been waiting for – with practical tips and the mindset shift that makes it possible. You’ve probably noticed that *making yourself* stop doing something feels terrible,...
The Hardest Part of LOSING WEIGHT
You know what the hardest part of LOSING WEIGHT is? All of it! So let’s talk about that. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: 👉 The SKILLS you need to lose weight (and it’s not counting calories or doing deadlifts) 👉 How the TWO-STEP TOOL can help you get started 👉 Why your brain...
What You Used to Do
Have you ever found yourself pining for the good ol’ days? Idealizing those times when you used to be able to do things that would get certain results, or when you used to feel better, or when everything was so much easier than it is now? My friends, we all get...
“I Hate My Body”
We’ve all got negative self-talk in our heads, but do you worry that some of your thoughts are… too negative? Like, you’d really rather not think about them at all? Then I’ve got great news (plus some practical, put-it-to-use-today advice) for you! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:...
Pahla B’s BOOK CLUB Reads “The Kindness Method”
Before you even watch this replay, I’m officially inviting you to the next LIVE Wellness Over 50 Book Club (in partnership with Chirp Audiobooks) event, because it’s going to be even more fun with YOU there! 💛 This time around, we read/listened to “The Kindness...
How to STOP STARTING OVER
We’ve all been there: things are going so well at the start of the journey to our goal weight, and then - BOOM! - life happens and we feel totally derailed. And when we can finally wrap our head around thinking about losing weight again, it seems like we’re starting...
Your SELF CONCEPT
Have you ever tried to answer the question “Who am I, really?” Then this episode of the Fitness Matters podcast is for you! This foundational episode is a must-listen! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: 👉 What your SELF CONCEPT is 👉 Why your SELF CONCEPT is important, and 👉 Why...
How (and Where!) to Find Motivation
I’ve got some good stuff for you today. Of course you want the MOTIVATION to go after your goals, but do you know how to find it? I mean, some days it just feels so elusive and out of reach, right? My friend, when you understand what motivation is (and what it’s...
Creating Unshakeable Belief in Yourself
Can you imagine what it would be like to have complete belief in getting to your goals? No, for reals, that’s an actual question. And if you don’t already have that UNSHAKEABLE BELIEF in yourself, this podcast will show you how! My friends, in today’s episode of the...
The FINISH Line
Are you in need of a little motivation to continue with your weight loss journey? Then you’ve come to the right place! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: 👉 What to do with a BLURRY WORRY 👉 How to set EFFECTIVE GOALS 👉 What it means to HAVE A GOAL 👉 Lessons I’ve learned from...
Your WEIGHT is a NUMBER
My friends, do you realize that you hold ALL the power to get what you want out of life? The simple truth is that WEIGHT LOSS success is yours for the taking once you learn THIS essential skill. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: 👉 WHAT is creating the frustration you feel when you...
How Does MINDSET Help with WEIGHT LOSS?
If you’ve listened to The Fitness Matters podcast before, you likely know that mindset is an important part of WEIGHT LOSS. But did you know that it’s THE secret sauce to getting to a healthy weight? In today’s episode, we’re cracking open this topic, and answering...
Normalizing SUCCESS
Wanna know how you can become your VERY BEST SELF? It’s not just what you’re doing, but who you’re spending time with and how you’re celebrating your SUCCESS that makes all the difference! In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re chatting about the...
Exercising for WEIGHT LOSS
It’s a question you think you know the answer to: How much do you have to EXERCISE to LOSE WEIGHT? But, my friends, the science might surprise you! On today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, I’m dispelling some common myths (spoiler alert: you don't have to...
BAD THOUGHTS
Did you know that we have about 60,000 thoughts a day, and that research shows the majority of those thoughts are considered negative? It’s overwhelming to think about all those BAD THOUGHTS, right? Well, fasten your seatbelts, friends, because we’re in for a wild...
Handling CRITICISM
Have you ever thought that you were being judged by someone? You may have felt defensiveness, defeat, and–ugh!--unworthiness. Tough stuff, right? Handling CRITICISM is one of the thorniest things we face in life. But in today’s episode of the Fitness Matters...
Pahla B’s BOOK CLUB Reads “Hormonal”
Are you ready for a great conversation about a fascinating book? Because that’s what we’ve got on tap for the Fitness Matters podcast today: Pahla B’s Wellness Over 50 BOOK CLUB reads “Hormonal” by Eleanor Morgan. From the publisher’s description: Hormonal explores...
I’m Not DIFFERENT
Do you ever feel like somebody’s circumstances make it easier for them to reach their goals? And that maybe if things were DIFFERENT for you, you could, too? Friends, we’ve all been there. But you know what? When we feel DIFFERENT, we’re not moving toward the things...
PLANNING Ahead
Does the idea of PLANNING AHEAD make you a little uncomfortable? Ditto for me, my friends! I used to think I wasn’t good at it, and you know what happened then? I managed to make that prediction come true every time. If this sounds like you, then today’s episode of...
Dealing with FRUSTRATION
Ever had circumstances that made you feel frustrated? Like, maybe the number on the scale went up? You got cut off in traffic? Or maybe the fact that the dishwasher wasn’t emptied when it was supposed to be? Yes, yes and yes! My friends, today we’re chatting about:...
Pahla B’s BOOK CLUB Reads “Live the Best Story of Your Life”
Do you want to change the story of your life? Are powerful life shifts even possible? My friends, I’m so excited about this month’s Pahla B’s Wellness Over 50 BOOK CLUB pick, “Live the Best Story of Your Life” by Bob Litwin! Can the concepts really be as simple as...
Why You’re Not LOSING WEIGHT
Are you bouncing around a certain number on the scale, or not seeing a general downward trend, and it feels like you’re NOT LOSING WEIGHT? Rest assured, my friends, I’ve got your back! In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re diving in and I’m sharing...
LETTING GO of Weight
Have you ever wondered what may be stopping you from getting where you want to go with your weight? And would you be surprised to hear that you have the sharpest tool in the shed available to you right now that will allow you to CREATE THE FUTURE YOU WANT? In today’s...
How to Lose Weight FASTER
Are you on a WEIGHT LOSS journey and sometimes frustrated by the slow movement on your scale? This is a concern I hear A LOT! And if you’re wondering if there’s anything you can do to speed up the process, this info is absolutely for you! In today’s episode of the...
Pahla B’s BOOK CLUB Reads “How Emotions are Made”
Do dogs and cats feel emotions? Can you tell how another person feels just by reading their expression? My friend, everything we’ve been taught about our feelings gets challenged in the fascinating book “How Emotions are Made,” by Lisa Feldman Barrett - this month’s...
When You’re JEALOUS of Other Peoples’ SUCCESS
Does the green-eyed monster rear its ugly head when other people seem to be having the WEIGHT LOSS success you want? Yep, we’re talking about JEALOUSY - a prickly, thorny topic that isn’t always easy to tackle. But you know what? You have more power than you think...
Where to START
Have you ever wanted to reach a goal – WEIGHT LOSS, a new job, whatever – and weren’t sure where to start? I've been there too, and I’ve got the help you need! In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, I’m sharing simple, straightforward suggestions that you...
Getting MOTIVATED to LOSE WEIGHT
Do you struggle with getting motivated, and wonder how you can find this elusive feeling more often (like, maybe every day) so you can LOSE WEIGHT? My friends, in today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we are going to clean out our mental closets and give...
2022 GOALS
In today’s goal-setting episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re digging into:🤩 Why LANGUAGE MATTERS🤩 How to MOVE FORWARD even if you didn’t get your 2021 goals🤩 What I learned about LOOKING FOR LESSONS (instead of doing this other crucial thing!), and🤩 How...
Pahla B’s BOOK CLUB reads “The Gifts of Imperfection”
During the month of December, the Pahla B Book Club, in partnership with Chirp Audiobooks, read and listened to “The Gifts of Imperfection” by Brene Brown, then enjoyed a LIVE meeting on Zoom! (And what an appropriate time of year to read this book–when so many of us...
LESSONS from 2021
There is something incredibly satisfying about turning the final page of a calendar, don’t you think? We’re on the brink of a new YEAR, new ENERGY, new GOALS. But is there anything we can do before we open our fresh, new calendar to set ourselves up for SUCCESS in...
LOSING WEIGHT During the Holidays
Thoughts of restriction, willpower, deprivation -- they seem to be everywhere! In today’s informative and empowering episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re talking about the monkey chatter in our brain during times of celebration and I’m sharing three different...
When Other People Don’t Support Your WEIGHT LOSS
You’ve seen it before. You’re working hard toward a HEALTHY WEIGHT and -- bam -- a comment like this comes your way: “There are donuts in the breakroom today. Here, have some!” “It must be nice to have all that food willpower this time of the year.” “Your face has...
Pahla B’s BOOK CLUB reads “The Menopause Manifesto”
And what an eye-opening book this is! Listen in and join the conversation about topics like menopause surprises, intriguing statistics, takeaways -- and much more! (Don’t worry if you haven’t read/listened to the book yet; this is an interesting conversation for...
The Compassionate OBSERVER
My friends, have you ever wondered what impact your thoughts, behaviors, and feelings have on the RESULTS you get in your life? Can your state of mind really affect your outcomes? In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we are peeling back the onion and...
DECIDING to Lose Weight
Have you ever said things like this to yourself? “I need to lose weight.” “I really should take off a few pounds.” “I’m hoping to see the scale move.” My friends, many of us have! But did you know that these very statements can actually keep us from getting us the...
GRIEF, Revisited
Today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast is a little messy, but that’s how life works sometimes, right? We’re chatting about GRIEF, and that means I’m going to be both crying *and* laughing (sometimes even at the same time)! Please note that this episode isn’t...
Why We Find Our THOUGHTS
Did you know that most people come to mindset work because they want to FEEL BETTER? I know I did, and maybe that’s why you’re here too. But when it comes to your thoughts, do you ever wonder about the big picture? The WHY behind what we do with our thoughts? Today...
HOPE
What are you hoping for on your WEIGHT LOSS and FITNESS journey? Sentences starting with “I hope for . . .” fill my Facebook page every day in relation to finding your HEALTHY WEIGHT and other goals. And in today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re pulling...
How OTHER PEOPLE Benefit When You LOSE WEIGHT
My friends, do you feel a little uncomfortable emotionally when you’re LOSING WEIGHT? Thinking perhaps that you’re spending too much time catering to your own needs instead of giving your time and effort to others? In today’s shockingly practical episode of the...
Food REGRET and SHAME
Do you ever feel overwhelmed by REGRET and SHAME? So much so that you feel paralyzed with indecision, and start asking yourself if every decision you’ve ever made has been the wrong one? If so, my friends, not only is there nothing wrong with you, but you are in...
How to COMFORT Yourself without FOOD
When something BIG happens in your life, do you often look to FOOD for COMFORT? If you’re raising your hand here, you’re not alone! Let’s face it, food is a primal, biological need for all of us that feels loving and comforting. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it...
Your AGING BODY
My friends, I’m noticing these things too! And sometimes it can feel really easy to view these changes in a not-so-positive light. But in today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re flipping the narrative and looking at how we can step into the future in a...
Choosing Your GOAL WEIGHT
Are you on a weight loss journey (or ready to begin one) and trying to decide on a GOAL WEIGHT? At a loss as to what the parameters are for this task? And maybe wondering what role your thoughts and your feelings have in the process? Today, I’m sharing my own...
“I’m Terrified of FAILING”
My friends, before I jump into the nitty gritty of today’s podcast, I have three questions for you: Do you sometimes feel that WORRY, DOUBT, and FEAR keep you from getting what you want? Are you so terrified of FAILING that you feel helpless? Would you like DIFFERENT...
WEIGHT LOSS Mindset
Have you ever said something like this to yourself? “I’m not reaching my weight loss goal. I know it’s my MINDSET, but I don’t know what to do about that.” In today’s BEGINNER-FRIENDLY episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re getting down and dirty (so to...
COACHING & Being COACHED
Have you ever stopped to realize that when you’re listening to the Fitness Matters podcast that you are COACHING yourself and simultaneously being COACHED (by yourself)? It’s sort of mind-blowing, right? And that’s why I recorded this episode for you: to help you...
Doing MORE
When talking about fitness, I get this question A LOT: “I understand your approach to fitness and moderation, Pahla, but YOU’RE doing more, aren’t you?” I absolutely understand the comparison game - heck, I’ve done it myself too! Ready to dig in? Listen now!...
Is there ANYTHING GOOD about getting OLDER?
Do you ever wonder if there’s ANYTHING (heavy emphasis on this word!) good about GETTING OLDER? In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re delving into this intriguing question, along with lots of random (but totally related, I promise!) things like Gwen...
Mind MANAGEMENT
Do you have a GOAL you’ve been thinking about, but you’re not sure HOW TO GET IT? My friends, today’s conversation is tailor-made just for you! It’s a straight-forward process - and IT WORKS! Ready to change your life? Jump on the podcast now and let’s GO!...
Great LEGS
And by “legs,” I mean Kim Kardashian, shopping at Old Navy, unsolicited advice from my son, and a few other seemingly unrelated things. Only - they totally are related! And there’s a vital message for YOU in here, too! My friends, I’m so excited to bring you this...
Stress EATING
Do you find yourself EATING when you’re under STRESS? When overwhelming things happen in your life, do you want to grab the nearest bag of chips or cookies and munch away? My friends, I deal with this, too! Today I’m revealing the ONE THING we can all do to help...
Trouble SLEEPING
Do you have TROUBLE SLEEPING? It’s no secret that getting a good night’s sleep is one of the best things we can do for our health and weight loss. But how can you help yourself if you wrestle with this nightmarish issue? Today, we’re chatting about my cat Rosy, what...
BLAME
Do you ever find yourself playing the “BLAME GAME” by pointing your finger at your scale, your boss, your relatives, etc. for things that are happening in your life? You’re not alone! Today we’re chatting about: 📌 The idea of “blaming” energy: what it is and what it...
What is a THOUGHT?
Do you think you know everything there is to know about your THOUGHTS? Well, let’s think again! In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re chatting about… my office chair?! Yep! Because it sets the perfect foundation for an illuminating conversation...
THINKING vs. DOING
Today we’re talking about the chain of events that gets you the RESULTS you want in your life. Often we think that we need to DO SOMETHING to get results… and while that’s true, it’s not the whole story. “DOING” is only one piece of the puzzle!...
Mindset TRICKS
Have you ever been in a situation where you felt incredibly overwhelmed, frustrated, or anxiety-filled? Absolutely paralyzed in your mind and not sure how to move forward? Yep. I’ve been there too, and THIS is what we can do about it! Today’s episode of the Fitness...
SETTLING IN
Do you sometimes feel that you’re treading water with certain aspects of your life? You may have uncertainty about what’s coming next or feel as if you’ve lost your footing a bit. Lemme tell ya, I’ve been there too! I’m sharing practical examples galore from my own...
SLEEP
Do you have problems with your SLEEP? And are you curious about what a ONE-ON-ONE COACHING SESSION with me sounds and feels like? I know those two things might not seem related, but this is a podcast UNLIKE ANY I’VE EVER DONE BEFORE! The mic is on as I hold an...
“I’m Not LOSING WEIGHT”
“I’m not losing weight.” Is this how YOU’VE been describing your weight loss journey lately? Well, my friends, in today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we are putting a magnifying glass to this statement and uncovering the RESULTS you create for yourself...
Where Do Your THOUGHTS Come From?
It’s the THOUGHT that counts, right? But where do your thoughts come from? And can you learn to “control” your thoughts to get yourself on the road to success? In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re chatting about the POWER you hold over your...
The MAGIC FORMULA
Our brains have an interesting habit of offering us that we’re not good enough, not smart enough, not thin enough, not (fill in the blank) enough. But you know what? You CAN be happy right now. How? Click the play button, and I’ll give you the MAGIC FORMULA. Let’s...
Being REALISTIC
When we’re talking about WEIGHT LOSS and FITNESS GOALS, we have to be realistic, right? NOPE! I’ve found so much more progress since I ditched the word “realistic” from my vocabulary. It was truly a light bulb moment for me, and here’s how you can have the same...
BONUS! Get Your GOAL Conversations
There’s a treat for you in this BONUS episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, where we’re talking about buts, parentheses, and changing tenses (and don’t worry if that doesn’t make sense to you right now, it will when you listen)! My friends, if you’ve ever said...
Take Control of Your EATING
Many of us feel like we’re not in CONTROL of our actions. But the truth is: you absolutely hold ALL the power in eating (and other) situations. In fact, you can be in the driver’s seat in every part of your life - money, job, relationships, and anything else. Today,...
The BEST FEELING
What do you think is the BEST FEELING? My friends, we’re digging into this intriguing question today, and I’m sharing what I believe is the BEST FEELING for getting what you want in the world. (Hint: It’s a quiet one and may surprise you!) We’re also chatting about...
Why WEIGHT LOSS is HARD
In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re chatting about why weight loss is a particularly interesting MINDSET MATTER and how you can approach your thoughts in a more helpful way. Doing these THREE THINGS (yes, I have a list of practical steps for you...
How to Lower Your STRESS
“Ugh! My job, my husband, the pandemic, the number on the scale (insert the thing that’s bothering you here) is causing me STRESS!” My friends, I hear you! And trust me, I have tons of empathy because I used to struggle a lot with stress too. That is, until I...
Feeling ANGRY
(Super quick warning: it’s NOT the point of the episode, but I do mention GRIEF and death, and if that’s not where you are today, this won’t be the podcast for you.) In today’s particularly personal episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, I’m offering up the...
What is MINDSET?
Did you know that humans have about 60,000 (!!!) thoughts per day? Mind-boggling, isn’t it? Here on the Fitness Matters podcast, we talk every week about THOUGHTS and how they drive the RESULTS we get in our lives. We’re resolving that mystery today in this concise...
Finding Your THOUGHTS
FINDING YOUR THOUGHTS will lead you to creating the RESULTS YOU WANT. Pretty powerful stuff, right? It’s amazing what we discover when we start by simply paying attention to our thoughts! We’re chatting about👉 WHY your thoughts are important👉 HOW your thoughts relate...
RESULTS
What kind of RESULTS are you getting in your life? Have you ever considered that you’re always getting results? Maybe they’re not the ones you want, but results are all around us! From daily walks to haircuts to what you see when you look in the mirror, we’re...
What You SHOULD Do
“I SHOULD sleep more. I SHOULD have reached my goal weight by now. I SHOULD be more active.” It can sound like a broken record! And the worst part is the end result: We often “should” ourselves into not getting the OUTCOMES we want. Friends, in today’s episode of the...
BAD DAY
BAD DAYS. Yep, we’ve all had ‘em. The anger, frustration, and other feelings we experience when we think things aren’t going our way. And the helplessness that puts a metaphorical cloud over our heads. But what if I told you that managing bad days can actually result...
Scale FEELINGS
On a scale from one to 10, how would rate your feelings about your ... ahem ... scale? When you step on it, what goes through your mind as you await the number on the screen? In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re diving into the topic of the...
How to LOVE YOURSELF
To be honest, I used to not really think about this topic. Or when I did, I used an archaic four-step process to gauge how I felt. But in time, I discovered that this process was actually pushing me in the opposite direction of where I wanted to go. Do you sometimes...
CHANGE
CHANGE: it can be a tricky thing. I often say, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it,” but so often our brains offer us that we need to change. So… how can you CHANGE, while still doing the same (right) things? In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, I’m...
Embracing NEGATIVITY
Do you have negative thoughts that keep you from getting WHAT YOU REALLY WANT? And do those thoughts often feel painful, believable, and seem to have some kind of power over you? Killer Bs, I used to be in your exact shoes, but now I’ve learned how to realize the...
What if Nothing’s WRONG?
It’s the beginning of a new year, and many of us are motivated by what is possible in the coming months. SETTING A GOAL is downright exciting! But what may be challenging is figuring out how to get there. In today’s podcast, we’re chatting about the art of starting...
Planning for SUCCESS
In today’s short and sweet episode of the Fitness Matters podcast we’re chatting about PLANNING FOR SUCCESS - and it may not go down the way you expect! Today, I’m laying out the mindset work and practical steps you can absolutely take (you’re going to laugh at step...
2021, Part II: Time-Bound RESOLUTIONS
It’s that time again -- NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS! In last week’s podcast, we talked about goal-setting and how it gives us a foundation to be SUCCESSFUL. Today, we’re building on that topic and homing in on TIME-BOUND RESOLUTIONS, which are a totally different animal....
2021 RESOLUTIONS
How do you see yourself at the end of 2021? Is the picture still a little fuzzy? Well, my friend, THIS is the podcast for you, and THIS is the time to start making “2021 YOU” happen! We’re chatting today about how excited I get about GOAL-SETTING (this is totally my...
Changing Your PAST
You can CHANGE YOUR PAST without changing a single fact about what took place, and it’s easier that you might think! Today, I’m sharing several stories about my own past and how I was able to adopt a different way of thinking that CHANGED EVERYTHING for me. I’m...
Getting Things DONE
And pretty often, we start to focus on DOING the actions on our to-do list, because of course that’s how to get things done, right? Nope! What we THINK actually creates WHAT WE GET in the world. In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, I’m focusing on the...
The FIRST STEP
My friend, this is a question I’ve asked myself many times over the years. And you know what? I’ve learned a lot about myself by doing “thought work” and learning all about how our thoughts actually work. The truth is, our THOUGHTS have a direct connection to the...
How to STOP WORRYING
Are you a worry wart? Then THIS PODCAST IS FOR YOU! A good friend once told me that worry is like sitting in a rocking chair and expecting it to get somewhere, and oh my goodness, how TRUE this is! In today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, I’m coming to you...
FAMILY
Joy, frustration, love, anger -- the full spectrum of emotions can be experienced at one time or another. And sometimes it feels difficult to process all of these incoming sensations, especially the negative ones, while still staying TRUE TO OURSELVES and maintaining...
What Do You DESERVE?
Did you know that the average human being has as many as 60,000 thoughts a day and that 80% of those thoughts are NEGATIVE?? This information was EYE-OPENING TO ME. But when I think about self-worth, goal-setting, and the challenges that many of us face when it comes...
Getting OLDER
I’ve mentioned before that I came to my self help / self improvement journey through MONEY mindset work and today I’m going to share all the lessons I’ve learned that are completely translatable into BODY mindset. (You’re going to be surprised how alike these two...
Practicing NEW THOUGHTS
You know that your THOUGHTS create your feelings (which drive your actions and get you results, of course), but you’re stuck on how, exactly, to practice NEW THOUGHTS in an effective way? Today’s conversation is a surprisingly related companion piece to last week’s...
Dealing with CRAVINGS
Okay, my friend, let’s dig in, because this isn’t your standard “tips and tricks” kind of episode. I have plenty of practical advice for you here, too, but the real heart of dealing with CRAVINGS is understanding 👉 WHAT they are (and what they’re not!) 👉 WHY you have...
How to STOP Feeling Like an IMPOSTER
Feel like an IMPOSTER? This podcast can help you stop! We’ve all struggled with feelings of being “less than” or not as good as others in an area where we’re new or simply uncertain of our skills, but today we’re chatting about three simple steps you can take to feel...
Wanting MORE for Yourself
This one’s a little short on practical step-by-step advice, but huge on looking at the big picture of your life and digging deep into yourself to find your true purpose… plus I share a few funny/cringey childhood memories to make it all more understandable. So TELL...
How I JOURNAL for Success
I’ve got a warning, a history lesson and some very practical tips for you today, and more than anything, I hope this helps you find YOUR way to journaling successfully for yourself!
GIVING UP
Today, we’re exploring what it means to GIVE UP (and what you *need* to give up) and truly accept yourself. Of course I have some practical advice for you, but the real work here is in the homework I’m assigning you! Yes, there’s a list. And of course I want to...
The Real PROBLEM
You know what the real PROBLEM is? It goes a lot deeper than you think! Today, we’re uncovering our thought processes about🤯 What we THINK our problem is, and🤯 What the REAL problem is And of course I have some practical tips for you to resolve both kinds of...
Self DISCIPLINE
As I turned the topic around in my head (and looked up the definition to get some clarity), I realized that there are some misconceptions about what it means to have self discipline, and maybe even what the phrase itself means. So, let’s dig in and uncover: Why SELF...
Facing Your FEARS
On the daily, I hear you: “I’m afraid to step on the scale.” “I’m afraid to eat that many calories.” “I’m afraid to sign up for a 5k.” “I’m afraid if I eat something sweet (or salty, or snacky, or whatever) that I won’t stop.” “I’m afraid if I stop exercising for a...
Stop Thinking POSITIVELY
I have some really unusual advice for you today, my friend - we’re chatting about why you should STOP thinking POSITIVELY! (Hint: it’s not giving you the positive results you’re looking for.) Today, I’m sharing a personal story, some notes from my journal, and a...
FEELINGS
You know I can’t resist singing that old song from the ‘70s (and now you will be, too!), but don’t let that distract you from how important this topic is. Your FEELINGS matter when you’re aiming to get a goal! On today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re...
How to SEE Yourself
Today on the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re exploring the ways we SEE ourselves and chatting about 👀 The *real* damage we’re doing when we pick our bodies apart or call ourselves names 👀 The tools you’ll use to climb out of this situation, and 👀 Some of the biological...
How to Stop SELF-LOATHING
Today, we’ve got a quick conversation about: WHY we do it and why it’s a good idea to stop WHAT self-loathing really is (it’s simpler than you realize!), and HOW three easy words can change it all for you I know it can feel overwhelming to try and stop the cycle of...
Other Peoples’ OPINIONS
And I’m not talking about getting mad, walking away, crying, or feeling terrible about yourself. I mean really, truly *accepting* opinions that you don’t agree with. Along the way on your fitness journey (and my YouTube journey, which is where all my examples are...
COMMITMENT
(Hint: it’s your brain being your brain, of course…) I’ve got both practical advice and mental models for you to explore on your journey to commitment. And along the way, I’m sharing funny personal stories of my own commitments, or lack thereof. TELL ME: What have you...
What You CONTROL
The almost painfully short list of what you DO control - your thoughts, your feelings, your actions and your results - might be things you’ve been tempted to relegate to other people, circumstances, things or situations. And the long list of things you DON’T control -...
EMOTIONAL Eating
First up, we’re talking about your BRAIN, of course, and why it does the silly (but biologically important!) things it does. And then we’ll put together a super simple (but not easy) 3-step plan that you can use for EMOTIONAL eating, and so many other times in your...
How to CHANGE
(And yes, I’m intentionally leaving it at that! There are no step-by-step instructions today, or practical advice - this episode is all about a single concept. And it’s probably the most important concept you’ll ever need, if you’re looking for CHANGE.) Join the...
GOALS, Pt. 4: Achieving Your Wildest Dreams
You think it’s all going to be puppies and rainbows on the other side of this GOAL work, don’t you? Well… I mean, there might be puppies and there might be rainbows, but also? There might be more mindset work to be done! Today on the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re...
GOALS, Pt. 3: Why We’re AFRAID of Setting GOALS
If you’ve been struggling with setting a GOAL, there’s a pretty good chance you fall into one of two main camps: 😱 You’re afraid you WON’T get your goal, or 😱 You’re afraid you WILL Crazy, right? But, yes, we can be afraid of just about anything. That’s the way our...
GOALS, Pt. 2: How to Set GOALS
But they’re not easy. 😄 My friend, we’re not just setting a GOAL willy-nilly here. We’re setting a GOAL that you can actually *get.* And that means we’re diving into your brain with these five steps: 🤯 Have an idea 🤯 State it clearly 🤯 Put a number on it 🤯 Put a...
GOALS, Pt. 1: WHY We Set Goals
Here we go! This is the first in a 4-part series about GOALS, and I am so excited to share this with you. This conversation is the foundation of everything you need to know about setting personal GOALS - WHY is it a good idea? And WHAT will setting goals do for you?...
Finding MOTIVATION from Your Future Self
Long-time listeners won’t be surprised at the simple two-step process: Have a GOAL BELIEVE that you can get it And today we’re diving deep into that second step with a tool that’s sure to get you excellent results - your FUTURE SELF. Your future self:🤩 Is always proud...
Learning to TRUST Yourself
We all have areas in our lives where we don’t quiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiite trust ourselves to follow through, but there are actually some very simple steps you can take to rectify this! On this week’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re diving into what it takes to...
Defining Personal SUCCESS
I think at this point, you know what a big fan I am of setting GOALS, right? Have you ever wondered why you sometimes reach your goal, but don’t feel entirely satisfied with the way it turned out? It’s likely that you had a hidden definition of PERSONAL SUCCESS that...
The Big “BUT”
There are some pretty obvious jokes about big “BUTs” on this one, but don’t let that distract you from how important this topic is! My friend, the only thing I remember from college is this simple concept about language that I learned in Philosophy 101: Everything...
BONUS Episode: STRESS The Fitness Matters Podcast with Pahla B
What, what? New podcast on a Friday? Yep, it’s a special BONUS episode, taken from a LIVE session in my Get Your GOAL membership group. We’re talking about STRESS today, and of course I’ve got some practical tips for working on the stress in your life, after we...
SELF CARE
When you think about SELF CARE, what comes to mind for you? Bubble baths? Mani-pedis? What about eating vegetables, using a foam roller, or setting a GOAL? My friends, SELF CARE is about so much more than just relaxing (although that is one aspect of it)! Because, of...
Old THOUGHTS
In this week’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re covering: 🤯 What OLD THOUGHTS actually are🤯 Why they’re NOT harder to get rid of than “regular” thoughts🤯 Three practical steps you can take RIGHT NOW to feel better and speak nicer to yourself TELL ME: What...
Mental TOUGHNESS
There’s a lot of misunderstanding of the phrase “mental toughness” and today, I’m going to de-mystify the topic and share some personal stories about developing my own mental toughness. So, let’s chat about:💪 What mental toughness ISN’T💪 What it IS💪 What it DOES for...
Dealing with UNCERTAINTY
Because I have a #truthbomb for you, as well as some practical advice for dealing with uncertainty. First, the cold, hard truth: LIFE IS *ALWAYS* UNCERTAIN Always. And you’re better equipped to deal with it than you realize (because you’ve actually been practicing...
How to Boost Your IMMUNE SYSTEM
Today, we’re taking a good long look at how keeping your immune system operating at its best is a lot like spinning plates. YouTube video of Erich Brenn spinning plates on the Ed Sullivan show in 1969: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zhoos1oY404 Like any of our human systems,...
This is a MARATHON, Not a Sprint
These are crazy times we’re living in, no? Most of us don’t have anything to compare this to, to know how to react, how to behave, how to think and how to move forward. But I have a few thoughts that you might find helpful. Whether you’re a long distance runner like...
Easing ANXIETY
Feeling kind of ANXIOUS? You’re not alone, and I’m here to help! This week, we’re diving into easing ANXIETY, armed with useful information and realistic advice you can use at home. Right now, it seems like the world is experiencing more fear and anxiety than usual,...
BODY Thoughts
My friend, you have some THOUGHTS about your BODY. And if I had to guess, I’d say most of them don’t leave you feeling especially good about yourself. I can help you feel better, and that’s why I made this podcast. This week, let’s talk about your BODY THOUGHTS and...
The Payoff of Reaching Your GOAL
Of course you want to reach your GOAL and feel all the happy, excited, proud, accomplished and thrilling feelings that go along with it! Don’t you? Well, sure you do. But also… My friends, there’s a part of your brain that might NOT want those thoughts and feelings,...
Taking RESPONSIBILITY for Your Fitness
Having trouble taking RESPONSIBILITY for your health and fitness? Yeah, you’re not alone. It’s surprisingly easy to blame your life circumstances (your job, your free time, your parents, etc.) for where you are. But you know what can make THE difference between...
Practicing Positive SELF-TALK
Of course you want to speak nicely to yourself, we all do! But… how, exactly, should you go about that? My friends, I’ve got the scoop, and an inside view of MY process of practicing positive SELF-TALK. It’s simple! But it’s not always easy. Join me in this week’s...
The 3 BEST QUESTIONS to Ask Yourself When You’re Struggling
You’re struggling, and your mind is going around and around at a million miles an hour. Wanna know how to get it to stop? By asking yourself a question (kinda like I just did there in the opening paragraph… pretty cool, huh?) But not just any ol’ question! Nope. I’ve...
Self Love + Gratitude
*Of course* you want to work on SELF LOVE and GRATITUDE, who wouldn’t? But, there’s a bit of a sticking point, isn’t there, when it comes down to the actual LOVING and feeling GRATEFUL. On today’s episode of the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re exploring the gap between...
The SECRET to Making Things Happen
Wanna know a SECRET? I don’t like using that word in the title of my podcasts! But in this particular instance, it’s totally apropos. There’s a secret to making things (like your fitness goals) happen, and it’s this: You have to give yourself PERMISSION. And, yes, I...
FACTS vs. OPINIONS
Think you know the difference between FACTS and OPINIONS? Of course you do! So why does this one matter? Because there’s a whole ‘nother layer to it, of course! And that makes this a fitness matter that matters to you. The *fact* is 😉, when it comes to the things we...
GOAL Language
Thank you for clicking on this one, because I know the title doesn’t really say a lot. But, trust me, this is a Fitness Matter that matters to YOU if you want to accomplish your GOAL. Today, we’re chatting about the LANGUAGE you use to think and talk about your GOAL,...
Facing OBSTACLES
Wouldn’t it be amazing if we could just get what we want without facing OBSTACLES? Yes. But here in the real world… Super quick warning: There are SWEAR WORDS in this episode! I know. It’s weird. And now you’ve been warned. Killer Bs, this is the unintentional Part...
Making Successful Resolutions, Part TWO
Here we go with Part TWO of the Making Successful Resolutions series (that only has two parts, LOL)! Okay. You wrote out your awesome and amazing list of this (now past) years’ accomplishments and you are ready to rock ‘n roll with making your 2020 RESOLUTIONS, right?...
Making Successful RESOLUTIONS, Part ONE
It’s about that time of year, Killer Bs, when everybody and their mother is trying to talk to you about making RESOLUTIONS. So, here we go! Okay, but seriously. I have something so important to tell you about making resolutions that I’m turning this into a two-part...
Are You Doing ENOUGH?
It’s a question I get asked almost daily, “Am I doing ENOUGH?” And the answer is never as simple as that question seems. No matter your goal - losing weight, running farther, lifting heavier, etc - there’s always a thought in our minds that maybe we’re not doing...
GRIEF
Today, December 15th, is the second anniversary of my sister’s death. Over the past two years, I’ve had an up close and personal experience of just how much GRIEF matters to your fitness. So let’s talk about it. My friends, this episode of The Fitness Matters Podcast...
Making Mistakes
You have a big goal, but you’re afraid of doing the “wrong” things. My friend, today on the Fitness Matters podcast, we’re talking about how MAKING MISTAKES truly matters. Or doesn’t matter. Depending on how you look at it. This episode is part rant, part wildly...
Changing Your MIND
Welcome, my dear friend, to the all-new and completely re-imagined Fitness Matters podcast! You might call it the podcast formerly known as Let's RUN (I hope my friends who were around when Prince changed his name to an unpronounceable symbol will appreciate that...
How I Lost Weight at 49 (During Menopause!) | Let’s RUN Podcast with Pahla B
This one’s PERSONAL. We’re going for an hour-long walk and run and talking about WEIGHT LOSS during menopause or perimenopause - specifically, how I lost about seven pounds over the last two months. And lemme tell you something, it wasn’t easy! But also? It wasn’t too...
WEIGHT LOSS, Part Five: Getting to Your Goal Weight
OMG, we did it! We made it to Part FIVE of the Weight Loss series and it’s time to WALK and TALK about getting to your GOAL WEIGHT and staying there forever! Sounds simple, right? It absolutely is. But that doesn’t mean it’s going to be easy. ? My friends, once you...
WEIGHT LOSS, Part Four: The Middle
Are you feeling stuck in the middle of your WEIGHT LOSS journey? Let's talk about it! And while we talk, let's go for a terrific walk and run with one minute intervals. Lots of things can happen in the middle of losing weight that can feel frustrating: Your weight...
WEIGHT LOSS, Part Three: Mindset Issues
Are you ready for it? Because this week we're diving DEEP and getting into the mindset issues that can block your weight loss success. It's a tough topic, Killer Bs, but you are definitely tougher! And while we're chatting, Let's RUN (and walk)! I've got the...
WEIGHT LOSS, Part Two: Getting Started
On today's episode of the Let's RUN podcast, we're covering everything (and I do mean everything) you need to know about WEIGHT LOSS - how it works, why it works and what you need to do to make it happen. We're starting the conversation with some facts about BIOLOGY...
WEIGHT LOSS, Part One: My Story | Let’s RUN Podcast with Pahla B
Let's talk about WEIGHT LOSS! This episode is Part ONE of a 5-part series, where we're covering everything from how to start losing weight, dealing with mindset issues, overcoming the dreaded plateau, and how to maintain your weight forever. Today, we're chatting...
30 Minute Indoor WALKING Workout | The Truth about How to LOSE BELLY FAT | Let’s RUN Podcast
While we're walking at a comfortable pace, we'll cover: What is belly fat and what WON'T work to reduce it (you might be surprised to hear some of these!) What CAUSES belly fat (and what doesn't) The best things (yes, plural) can you do to LOSE belly fat Thanks for...